Ever think of leaving?

… I know this is a weird thought from a blog focused on improving my house, but lately I’ve been giving more thought to leaving the island. Why? Family, of course … if there’s one thing that should be understandable about why someone would ever leave here, it should be family. Oh, usually it’s the other way around - your kids go to the Mainland for college, find an exciting world out there, maybe get a job or an advanced degree there, too … and then Mom or Dad falls ills, needs some help, and the kids are reeled back to Hawaii. Most of them don’t seem to regret it, but quite a few that I’ve met still miss their old home on the ML.

I guess I could hang tough and wait for the kids to boomerang back home, or even lure them back home with tales of ill health, but that would be bogus.If they’re all there, and I’m here without them, except for the obligatory one-week-home-a year visit … then why am I still here?

One Response to “Ever think of leaving?”

  1. Lika Says:

    Thats usually how it yeah, regardless of where you live. Ohana comes first. You eda wanna be close to them or not, you know. I suppose it depends on da drama or fun of da dysfunction in each ohana.

    I think its ironic (also typical) to have been born and raised in Hawaii; and once upon a time da goal was always to leave “da rock” yeah, go mainland. Anden now stay mainland (3decades latah) no can afford to go home or you get use to a certain lifestyle in da mainland you not going have if you move HOME/Hawaii cause of the economy & housing market la dat.

    Regardless doe, home is always home yeah. Your soul knows where it belongs.

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