It took almost 10 years to reunite, and in an instant serendipity. Of course it couldn’t have been completely by ‘accident’ since we were reunited, but it couldn’t have happened at a better time…sooner would have been disastrous mostly because of my immaturity. We were both at a point in our lives that we were seeking ‘something better’ to sound cliché. I am grateful for all of the memories and experiences we did not share together. It built character, strengthened our minds, but most importantly prepared our souls to be receptive. Our blissful rediscovery was met by some expected opposition, and there continue to be attempts of sabotage. Has this deterred us in anyway? Of course not, it’s a reinforcement to communicate more effectively, to be sincere in our friendship in order to strengthen the foundation of our relationship. In terms of ‘time’ our rediscovery is still in the early stages, but in terms of growth and progression we may as well be celebrating a complete lifetime together. Is it this good? Absolutely. There’s balance, commitment, friendship, unconditional love, constructive criticism, support, interest, and more in no particular order of importance since all of it is necessary. Our upcoming challenges are welcomed and not necessarily to satisfy the notion that ‘time apart will make you appreciate one another’, we already know our worth, individually and together. But, we welcome the challenge as a time of individual and personal growth. There are no insecurities of growing apart because we are in agreement that our individual growth is as essential as is the fusion of our souls. Are there bad hair days? Absolutely. We focus on edification of one another, of each other, of all of our souls.
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