Archive for December, 2004

Christmas Tree

Sunday, December 5th, 2004

Every Christmas tree is different. Some people decorate their tree with lots of color, while others decorate with a particular theme in mind. Some like the look of canned snow sprayed upon the tree, and others like the glitter of tinsel.

When I was a child, our Christmas tree always had bright colored lights. And we were big on tinsel. We had a vast array of ornaments that differed in color, shape, and design. Although we always had plenty of ornaments, each year Mom would buy a few more to make the tree special and to commemorate the year. With each new Christmas, I could sometimes look at an ornament and recall the time it first adorned our tree.

There were also some personal touches that gave the tree a “family tree” feel. Hanging alongside two swan-shaped ornaments that had hung on Great Grandmother’s tree, were three baby rattles that had once belonged to each of us kids when we were babies.

How do you decorate your tree to make it special?

Aloha Friday Children’s Books

Friday, December 3rd, 2004

Six Children’s Books from your childhood that you recommend:

* The Five Chinese Brothers: by Claire Huchet Bishop
* Curious George Goes to the Hospital: by Margaret & H.A. Rey
* I Wish That I Had Duck Feet: by Theodore Lesieg
* Green Eggs and Ham: by Dr. Seuss
* Go, Dog. Go!: by P.D. Eastman
* Where the Wild Things Are: by Maurice Sendak

What would you recommend?

Have a Great Aloha Friday!

The Bad Gift

Thursday, December 2nd, 2004

Undoubtedly it happens every Christmas. It all starts out with a person happily receiving a present from a friend, a love, or a family member. Excitedly the pretty ribbon is cut and the paper is torn away from the package. Suddenly the receiver of the gift realizes what the gift actually is, and a look of genuine disappointment flows across their face.

Yes, it is the dreaded bad gift.

I would say that 99% of all gifts are good gifts. By definition, the act of giving to others is good. Still, there is that 1% of gifts that no matter how much thought is put into it, it is destined to be a bad gift. Personally, I’ve been on both ends of bad gift-giving.

When I was around eleven years old, one of my brothers decided to make presents for the entire family. Surely there is nothing wrong with homemade gifts, but it would be generous to say the gift was “homemade”. What he made and gave to everyone was a block of styrofoam, which he had stabbed numerous times with a pencil and slapped some red paint on. I remember everyone’s face as they asked, “What is it?” He replied, “A pencil holder.” Definately a bad gift.

I must admit that I’m guilty of being on the other end of bad gift-giving as well. I was out at the mall Christmas shopping for a girlfriend, when a thought came to mind as I approached one of the lingerie stores for women. I bought one of those sexy nighties that I was sure she would enjoy. How surprised I was on Christmas morning to see the disappointment in her eyes as she unwrapped the package. “This isn’t for me, it’s for you,” she said half jokingly and half seriously. Alas, my heart was in the right place, but I never thought of it in that way. In spite of my good intentions, it was definately a bad gift. Fortunately, I had bought her several other presents, so the sting of bad gift-giving wasn’t too bad for her or me.

Holiday Wishlist

Wednesday, December 1st, 2004

Every year at about this time, my brothers and I would take turns flipping through the pages of the Christmas catalog. We would find all the toys and neat stuff throughout the catalog, and then we would pen our initials next to all the things that we really wanted. I’m unsure of the origins of this family holiday tradition, but it was always fun to look at the pictures and read the descriptions, and it kept our minds occupied for a while. It was always understood that it was nothing more than a wishlist, a way of letting Santa and Mom and Dad know where our toy desires were focused. As good fortune would have it, Santa and Mom and Dad often had a better understanding of what we would enjoy than we did.

It’s been a long time since I last penned my initials in a Christmas catalog. However, for the sake of blog entertainment, I decided to compose a wishlist of all those must-have items that I really need or want. There was only one small problem that I ran into while making the list; I can’t think of anything that I really need or want. Don’t get me wrong, I’m just as materialistic as the next person. But as I pondered over the subject, I realized that there isn’t a specific item on the market that I consider as “must-have”, no product with that Cabbage Patch Kid appeal that would have me running to the mall to acquire.

I’ll be the first to admit that I don’t have my finger on the pulse of what’s hot for Christmas 2004. So, I did a little online research to find out what those in the know considered hot items. The International Council of Shopping Centers has a list of “need to buy” gifts, but most of the gifts seem like presents of Christmas past; Elmo, Shrek, Tamagotchi, Ms PacMan, and Trivial Pursuit are all included in the list of “hot toys”. And I don’t know about you, but when it comes to clothing and apparel, tweed, suede, big belts and pink are not exactly on my priority list.

Admittedly, Oprah has some nice stuff on her holiday list of favorite things. The wide-screen TV is cool, but then I’m reminded that no matter how big the screen is, the same lame programming continues. The laptop computers are cool as well, but I’ve got a computer. There’s a good chance that when this computer decides to die, the price of laptops will be much cheaper and more powerful.

With all that said, I still wanted to compose a holiday wishlist. While certainly none of the items are “must-have”, each has enough appeal to be listed:

* Amtrak Tickets: Traveling across the country via Amtrak would not only be a cool gift, but an excellent adventure. And it’s fairly affordable.

* Nikon D70: I’m happy with the job my compact camera does, but this is a camera for life. In the past year I’ve read a lot of reviews about digital SLR’s, and the Nikon D70 always seems to come out on top. Still kind of pricey for my tastes, but this is a wishlist. Besides, it’s so pretty.

* Underwear: Let’s face it, one can never have too much underwear. Personally, I prefer the fit of cotton boxers with a touch of spandex.

* Sony Playstation 2: I admit that I don’t own any video games and I know nothing about them. But the graphics look cool and the John Madden Football looks fun.

* Cologne: It’s always good to smell good.

* Levi’s: Like underwear, one can never have too many pairs of Levi’s.

* Zoombot: I don’t know how good of a job it will do, but there’s something cool about a hands-free vacuum.

See what I mean, not exactly a list of must-haves.